Looks and appearance

Couple with the phones looking suspiciously

Signing up on a dating site you expect to find the love of your life or at least a trustworthy partner. But people judge by appearance first, so uploading the best photos you have seems like a good idea. There is nothing wrong in a wish to present your best sides to a possible partners.

For many such corrections may seem small, but all in all it creates an image totally different from a real human behind a dating profile.

But there are people who go far behind choosing good pictures. They use Photoshop or other graphic editors for altering their face and body so that they correspond to the idea of a perfect person. They make their waist look thinner, create an image of a muscular body and gorgeous face with petite traits. For many such corrections may seem small, but all in all it creates an image totally different from a real human behind a dating profile. When you finally decide on meeting offline, even recognizing your date without digital modifications can be hard.

Job and income

Woman disappointed by her online date

There is significant difference between the lies men and women tell each other about their jobs and income.

We all want out partner to be successful and skillful professional. Many would like a significant other to earn a salary equal to the one they get themselves or bigger. Certain jobs are also considered boring and unappealing. So the first thing that comes to mind in case a person is not satisfied with their job is lying or at least embellishing actual facts.

There is significant difference between the lies men and women tell each other about their jobs and income. Male users of dating sites show they are more wealthy than they really are. So they say they hold important positions and earn a lot. Women on the other hand are afraid of scaring men by being more intelligent or well-paid, so they tend to understate the actual situation.

Hobbies

No matter if you are getting acquainted online or in reality, pretending you are interested in things that can’t matter less for you is still common. It all comes from the desire of being accepted and find friends and partners as good as everyone else has. That especially often happens to people who didn’t belong to a squad in school because their preferences and hobbies are not so common among their peers.

Good for them if they finally become really into what they say they like, but during continuous communication the lie may come out.

So when it finally comes to finding a life partner such individuals think that a little lie will not hurt anybody. They claim about being interested in things that most people like so that they get more chances of meeting somebody. Good for them if they finally become really into what they say they like, but during continuous communication the lie may come out.

Answering the messages

Annoyed couple looking at each other

We often expect that texting will be constant and there will be significant reasons for not replying to a message. So when a collocutor sends you an answer after a long time or reads a text but doesn’t respond, suspicions start crawling into head.

...when it happens repeatedly and a person disappears often they might actually give a good looking reasoning while not being interested in maintaining the dialogue.

Many for sure are busy and can’t find a minute for writing you back. But when it happens repeatedly and a person disappears often they might actually give a good looking reasoning while not being interested in maintaining the dialogue. Most common lies include phone discharging and random immediate business, that wasn’t the matter just a couple of minutes before.