Many girls have relationships with guys who are quite young and not really ready for serious relationships. But they believe that they would get a little older and everything would work out - everything would become better. They believe that love surpasses everything. And they just do not want to accept the truth. Let’s conclude - they are immature.

Adult love is not perfect.

When I was almost a child, I thought that in real relationships there must be drama. There should be quarrels, barriers, prohibitions. However, now I understand that in this case the relationships are unhealthy. When adults build relationships, they know that they need to live here and now, in harmony, not looking back and not thinking about the front. They know that people and relationships develop, but adult love remains.

Adult love is not perfect. There will still be problems, difficulties, but they will be solved in an adult way. When someone is ready to raise their hands, surrender and admit their mistakes - half the battle is already won. Pride, ego and fear of showing one's weaknesses are all potential threats to relationships. In adult relationships, people are real, so they accept themselves and the other side.

And there you see - someone will be worthy of your further attention.

You can try dating for adults at parties of speed datings. This pleasure, of course, is not free, but then you can get several contacts of interesting people at once. Indeed, in 1 hour you can talk to more than 5 people. And there you see - someone will be worthy of your further attention.

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A relationship with an adult guy is always a hidden iceberg. There may be a number of problems. His peers and your parents, the lack of common interests and, of course, the physiological side of the issue. Taking into account the 21st century, we can immediately reject the side of public opinion, because for a long time no one has noticed the girls hand in hand with the “daddies”.

What are the fears?

We will mention the two most common ones:

1. Your parents. The first and the most important reason that makes you think, "And so.. do I really like him?". Parents always believe that they know more. And in most cases - it's true. They know that an adult guy needs not only gentle hugs, he is a man. Do you know that only 10% of relationships that begin before the age of 20 end in marriage? Do you know that almost all couples who started dating at school or at college are breaking up? Why? Because people grow up and their priorities change;
2. Sex. Are you ready to sleep with a man and get pleasure from it? Are you ready to worry about contraceptives and intimate health, to take risks (and sex is always a risk of getting pregnant)?

The list may be continued.

Life story

Here is the story of one our friend: “I did not like to meet a guy older than me. We had different interests and hobbies, a different social circle. Now I understand him - why his friends, my books and movies irritated him, but then I was surprised. I was 17 and I was full of dreams about an adult and wise man next to me. I did not notice his dissatisfaction with me or the conviction of his parents.” To start building adult relationships you should be ready for this.

Most often - these are people of the same social environment. They meet each other with mutual friends, go to the same club or attend a section together (for example, swimming or tennis). These people initially have at least one common goal - to learn how to play chess or sing, embroider or climb rocks. All begins from this.

Adult relationships are not for convenience or for personal use. They exist to create memories, travel together, as a team, exploring each other's body and mind. Find your mature love at Dating.com and share your story with us.