Here is our advice:
- let him stay involved in his hobbies,
- do not step in his usual environment - acquaintances, colleagues, friends;
- do not interfere his work, especially if he loves her and appreciates it;
- do not touch his innocent habits whether it is loving street dogs or buying lottery tickets;
- do not condemn his taste in clothing, cinema choice or anything else.
Any attempts to control him will predetermine negative effect. Of course it is recommended and even necessary to talk about the things you dislike in relationships, to discuss what is unpleasant. But it is necessary to remember to do it in a calmly manner without “pressing” and moralizing.
The initial stages of the union is studying the habits, interests, and principles of each other at a new, deep level. The main goal of this period is to learn how to combine his and your lives correctly. It is important to understand what should be done together, and what is better to plan doing by oneself, where it is better to compromise, and where it is even possible to make well-founded sacrifices. It will not be possible to step to the next level without going through this stage of adaptation.
Then it is the right time to talk about friends and family. It is a shrine for most of the boys. And in this regard, many girls show two opposite extremes. One girl tries to make his family like her no matter what. And the other criticizes his family and often compares it to her one.
All nit-pickings will be regarded as an attempt to break such a connection.
Both points of view imply negative consequences. However, the second case is more painful. In this case the girl deeply insults the feelings of the chosen one, rejecting an important part of his life. The people, who supported the guy, helped him for the whole life mean a lot to him. All nit-pickings will be regarded as an attempt to break such a connection. It is quite enough for guy’s relatives to recommend him to break up with the girl.