Even though we are taught from the early childhood that appearance doesn’t matter if a person is rotten from the inside. But this is a concept even adults have to learn. Good looks still play a great role in the process of choosing a partner. Everybody wants to see a person who will be a pleasure for the eye. And even as the ideas of beauty change from one person to the other, the way somebody looks is still the main point to judge first.
But having a like-minded person is much more important as the pleasure we get from mutual understanding is enormous. Think about the qualities your partner should possess. Should it be a hard-working person, or somebody family-oriented, or maybe you want a free spirit, just like you are. Matching personalities are a base for successful and pleasant relations and the best source of understanding.
But apart from personality, remember about interests and hobbies. It is the main thing we pay attention to while choosing a date in younger age, but only the combination of character and interests will lead to actual success.
Ask your date about favourite music, the last movie that was seen in the cinema, talk about ways you like to spend your free time. It doesn’t mean that your hobbies have to be matching all the way, but having several things to do together is a great option to strengthen the bond.