There is no way a woman would fall for somebody who doesn’t like himself at all. Besides that, if you are not confident, anything you do will look hilarious. Any woman will intuitively understand you are in doubt or nervous and all your attempts will become pointless, as girls prefer to have fearless men by their side.
Accept the fact that dating is kind of nerve wrecking for you and you will be vulnerable.
So before going on a date, do a little work in self-persuasion department. Accept the fact that dating is kind of nerve wrecking for you and you will be vulnerable. If these emotions are not overwhelmingly powerful, they won’t bother you. Therefore your task is to get them under control.
What might help is realisation that women are same humans as you are. They don’t want you to be perfect in every single move and they too understand how terrifying it can be to spend time with a person you like. Girls are worried about the impression they would leave as well. But that doesn’t mean they would show it right off, as it will ruin the communication as a whole.